New city, new job, zero free time — the classic combination. I started to suspect the problem was where I was looking, not who I am. I wasn't lonely for company — I was lonely for connection, which is a different thing. My friend from HR, of all people, suggested this European Women Dating site and honestly, results this quick surprised me. I still can't quite believe how smoothly the whole thing has gone. My calendar, my mood and my group chat all approve of the decision.